He schmoozes around on the internet like snot schmoozes through the fingers of a three year old whose hands do double duty as Kleenex, billing himself as a dating expert for successful women who are lonely and convinces them to give him money in exchange for really bad dating advice. Mister fella’s name is Evan Marc Katz (or EMK, as he is commonly called) and he is a douche, and I know this because I read his blog on the regular.Thanks to his completely shitty and depressing advice and the gaggle of MRA  goobers who insist on frequenting the comments section, the general mood of the blog is super duper gross and obnoxious and decidedly anti-female.Most of all, she’s questioning her own judgment, which is the hardest thing to do when you pride yourself on being intelligent and rational. And I’m betting that you’re a lot better off without that guy than you are with him. So if Tami wants to know where she went wrong in choosing her husband… So the next time you’re dating a guy, don’t get too sucked in by his charm or his wit or his looks or his money…From what little I learned about Tami and her husband, it seemed clear that she willfully ignored his selfish, narcissistic tendencies because of what came with the rest of the package – cute, smart, successful, etc. Which brings me to the crux of today’s post: how do you KNOW if someone is a good guy or a bad guy? …or if you’ve struggled for years to figure out why you choose the wrong men… You’ve been investing in the least important qualities. Instead, learn to appreciate the guy who does what he says, who says what he means, who makes it clear that you’re a priority to him.The problem is that most people think they can just go online and succeed, without realizing that there’s an actual skill to it.You can’t just shop for a partner the way you can order up other things on the Internet.
Bauby’s story was immortalized in the movie, “The Diving Bell and the Butterfly”, but it really got me to thinking: If you had EVERYTHING taken away from you – your body, your job, your whole self-definition – You’d be left with your mind. Cut him loose and choose the man who loves you for what’s INSIDE. Evan Marc Katz is a Dating coach for women, and author of 4 books about dating.It’s a perfect marriage of technology and opportunity.There are about 100 million singles in the United States, and everyone has a personal computer and a phone, which allows us to connect immediately with people we’d never meet in the course of our day-to-day life. Katz, who calls himself a personal trainer for love, coaches successful women in the art of successful dating.He says that while online dating simply makes sense in today’s world, it’s important to do it wisely.
I created an audio series called , in which I share best practices and some key mistakes to avoid.